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You can talk to for free on the phone right now to people at Trans Lifeline if you want to.
Write this down: 877-565-8860 (US)
Trans Lifeline is a 501(c)3 non-profit dedicated to the well being of transgender people. The hotline is staffed by transgender people, family, and close allies for transgender people. Extensively trained Trans Lifeline volunteers are ready to respond to whatever support needs members of the community might have.
If you’re feeling hopeless or suicidal, please call
the Trevor Lifeline at 866-488-7386
Below you will find In Person resources so you can meet up with other real life couple to learn and grow better together, On Line resources, and Real Quotes from real folks figuring out their marriage with or as a Trans mate. If you have others to add, send to Shannon firstname.lastname@example.org.
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How to find a good marriage counselor? Ask Shannon Batts in Portland, Oregon. Note from Shannon: Make sure they have advanced training (not just degrees and licenses) with couples, can describe what they learned and how they deliver it to you, and are also HAPPILY married!
Can they speak to their privilege or marginalizations and how they impact counseling with you?
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2. Calogiuri G, Evensen K, Weydahl A, Andersson K, Patil G, Ihlebæk C, Raanaas RK. Green exercise as a workplace intervention to reduce job stress. Results from a pilot study. Work. 2015;53(1):99-111. doi: 10.3233/WOR-152219. PMID: 26684708.
3. What moves you? Physical activity strategies in older women
Marily Oppezzo, Lauren Wegner, James J Gross,
Daniel L Schwartz, Tessa Eckley, Abby C King, Sally Mackey, Marcia L Stefanick
First Published May 18, 2021 Research Article Find in PubMed
Shannon Batts, Licensed Professional Counselor of Portland, Oregon, lic# C2379, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for Californians, lic# MFT 34477, is Marriage Friendly, with better than neutrality toward the outcome of your life long love commitment. Shannon Batts is a Portland, Oregon counselor, with advanced skills, education and training in assisting couples (extremely rare among counselors). Lesbian, gay, trans, mixed gender identity, questioning gender, nonbinary, and straight couples of all ages seek out tools and support for their relationships from Shannon Batts. Shannon trains ongoingly to be antiracist and is a facilitator and consultant at Race Talks PDX. Transgender, Black Americans, or unhoused clients will find amazing flexibility in counseling rates if you need it because you've been through enough!
all arrive at Relationship Gardening and Spouses Resource Center so as to increase options for couples facing gender transition to have excellent support for making it through transition together.
Couples with no LGBTQ identities also benefit by Relationship Gardening.